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How Playground Bullies Become Office Bullies

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There is at least one kid in every school that is known as a bully. That person intimidates and pushes others around simply because they feel like it is easy. Adults might try to intervene, but it usually just makes things worse for whoever is getting bullied. Unfortunately, a lot of playground bullies end up becoming bullies in the office when they become adults.

 

Why is this? The easy answer is that whatever was causing this person to be a bully when they were a kid has still been unresolved. However this person becomes a bully, it can pose real issues at work. Mobbing, e.g., a group of employees ganging up against another employee or couple of employees in the workplace, is a serious issue and it needs to be examined within the company to make sure that there are no issues with this at work. A bully can lower morale and make it extremely difficult to work around someone who is constantly intimidating others.

 

Workplace mobbing harassment usually happens because one worker realizes that they can just overpower their way to success. A lot of people in the working world refuse to speak up out of fear that they could be perceived as weak. A few people take advantage of that and simply intimidate others into doing things for them.

 

The boss could be the main problem when it comes to mobbing in the workplace. Not all bosses are great leaders and some think that those who are bullies are the true leaders. This isn't true in a lot of workplaces, but some people believe that “might makes right”. In a situation like this, it is no wonder why some would think that it is OK to bully at the office.

 

On a related note, workplace mobbing harassment could be seen as another form of office politics. Perhaps workers buy in to bullying other workers simply because it is the only way to get ahead. In that sense, no one really sees that the actions are really the actions of a bully. Each day, workers go to work expecting abuse and take it.

 

Bullying is an issue for all ages. Playground bullies grow to learn that they can have their way simply because they are bigger, or more politically adept, than those around them. It usually stems from the bully’s insecurities and fears. Playground bullying has often been dismissed as kids just being kids, but at work, bullying is often tolerated.  Just as children are educated, workers may need to be educated to recognize and stop bullying.

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